Rewrite my dating app bio so it's specific enough to start a real conversation, not just collect right-swipes.
ABOUT ME (be honest, weird is fine): {your_actual_quirks_jobs_hobbies}
WHAT YOU'RE LOOKING FOR (vibe, not 'long-term partner'): {what_kind_of_person_or_energy}
WHAT YOU DEFINITELY DON'T WANT in messages: {dealbreakers — e.g. 'hey' as a first message}
APP: {Tinder / Hinge / Bumble / etc.}
LENGTH LIMIT: {character_limit_for_that_app}
GOAL: make it specific enough that 70% of replies reference something concrete from the bio.
DO:
- Use 1-2 unusual nouns (not 'food', say 'lemon tarts'; not 'travel', say 'overnight trains').
- Include one tiny invitation — 'tell me your hottest take on X', 'message me only if you've actually read Y'.
- 1 humble brag is OK if it's funny.
- Sound like you talk, not like a corporate bio.
DON'T:
- 'Looking for my partner in crime', 'just ask', 'I take life seriously but not too seriously'.
- Lists of cliches: hiking, sushi, dogs, traveling.
- Anything that sounds like it could be on 1000 other bios.
Give me 3 versions. Tell me which one you'd swipe right on and why.0 copies·0 saves·5 views
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Sample output
Version 1 — Specific & quirky Product designer in Berlin who collects old metro maps and is mildly obsessed with the Lisbon yellow tram. Cook badly, ferment things on purpose. Looking for someone who has strong opinions about how to load a dishwasher.
Message me about: bread you've made, songs you put on a 'driving at night' playlist, why your favorite chair is your favorite chair.
Don't message me with 'hey'.
Version 2 — Story-shaped Moved to Berlin three years ago for a 6-month contract. Still here. Currently learning to roast my own coffee badly, write better fiction slowly, and play piano never. If you have a strong opinion about an obscure film nobody saw, I want to hear it.
Version 3 — Direct Product designer, mid-30s, in Berlin. Climbing 2x a week, slow runs on Sundays, and I read more than I should admit.
Looking for someone who can sit in silence comfortably and also argue about a single book for 2 hours.
First-message bar: tell me a song you've played 100 times this year.
I'd swipe Version 1. It has the most specific nouns (yellow tram, fermentation, dishwasher opinions) and gives the other person three different conversation entry points instead of one. Specificity is what kills the 'hey' problem.
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If you're getting matches but no replies, the bio is the problem. Specificity > cleverness — one weird specific noun beats five witty lines. The prompt targets ChatGPT (GPT-4) and lives in the Writing & Content category on mycopyprompt.
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